Tuesday, July 5

SOUL MATES



I’m finding myself in resistance to getting GPS for Living to the layout girl. This is a nice diversion for me. But today, I’m just going to share with you something I read about soul mates while researching my book.

"people think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. but a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. a true soul mate is probably the most important person that you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. but to live with a soul mate forever? nah. too painful. soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave. and thank god for it...his purpose was to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light could get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you had to transform your life...that was his job, he did great, but now it's over...so miss him. send him some love and light every time you think about him, then drop it. you're just afraid to let go of the last bits of him because then you'll really be alone, and you are scared to death of what will happen if you are really alone. but here is what you gotta understand...if you clear out all that space in your mind that you're using right now to obsess about this guy, you'll have a vacuum there, an open spot--a doorway. and guess what the universe will do with that doorway? it will rush in--God will rush in--and fill you with more love than you ever dreamed. stop using him to block that door. let it go. you gotta stop wearing your wishbone where your backbone outta be.”

It didn’t say who the author was, but it was interesting thoughts for me to ponder.

"Anyone or anything that does not bring you alive, is too small for you! “ David Whyte

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